Aisha Nemoto
Bachelor of Arts
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Good evening faculty, family, graduates and friends.
How is everyone feeling today?
Like many of you, I am excited tonight, perhaps a bit overwhelmed, and feeling more than a little nervous especially here on the stage in front of you all.
But I am very honored to be here with you, and to share this special milestone with my fellow graduates.
When we look back on our time at TUJ, I think we will realize that although we studied together under one roof, in the same classrooms, at the same school, we all lived this shared journey in our own unique way.
Each of us will take away from TUJ a distinctly personal story drawn from that collective experience.
Tonight, I want to share a small part of my own story in the hope that it might resonate with some of yours.
To begin, I would like to read something that I wrote when I was in the elementary school, in the third grade.
I wrote this in Japanese, but it roughly translates to this:
“Just Do Your Best” Grade 3 – Aisha Nemoto
My dad always says, “Just do your best.”
Last year, I really didn’t want to come in last in the race at our sports day.
So I woke up early every morning and went to a nearby park with my dad.
I ran and ran and ran as hard as I could.
Along the way, I cheered myself up by petting dogs that were out for a walk.
Finally, the day of the sports day arrived.
I was most nervous about the race, of course.
When it was my turn, I made up my mind.
"Just do your best.”
And I did.
Ever since I was a child, I was never very athletic.
When I was in the first grade, my teacher would tell my mom almost daily, “Aisha fell again today.”
So you can imagine that running races was the scariest part of Sports Day for me.
I was terrible at it and always came in last.
And that was why I wrote that short essay in the third grade.
To give myself courage and to remind myself to do my best – to take one step at a time.
To be honest, I don’t remember now whether I came in last that day or not.
But I can still vividly remember running with my dad, early each morning - out of breath - trying as hard as I could.
So today, the message I want to share with you is that simple - as my eight-year-old self once said:
“Just do your best.”
I know that something that once felt so honest and real as a child can start to sound like empty words as we grow up and face the reality that our efforts do not always pay off.
Because of the pandemic, plans you had for years may have fallen apart.
Maybe your classmate who cheated got a better grade than you.
Or your favorite restaurant was closed on the day you were craving it the most.
Yes, life isn’t always fair.
It can feel unreasonable at times.
But what matters is this - what did you do next?
In 2011, Japan experienced the Great East Japan Earthquake.
Because of its impact, I moved between three different elementary schools.
Looking back, I believe I learned to be at peace with where I am, and to bloom where I am planted.
And now, more than ten years later, some of my closest friends are the ones that I met at the school I transferred to.
The people I met at recovery camp following the disaster also became an important part of who I am today.
Later, during my sophomore year at TUJ, I planned to study abroad in the UK.
I applied, and I was accepted, but due to unavoidable circumstances, I couldn’t go.
At the time, I felt deeply disappointed.
But I waited for another opportunity, and a year later, I made it happen.
I studied abroad at National Taiwan University, contributed to the establishment of TUJ Kyoto, and later studied at our main campus in Philadelphia.
Looking back, if I had gone to the UK at that time, I don’t think I would have had those irreplaceable experiences.
What I learned from these experiences is that there are things beyond our control.
But how we respond - and how we turn those moments into opportunities for growth - is entirely up to us.
So I choose to do my best, and to find joy in both the process and the outcome.
When you find out your favorite restaurant is closed, it is up to you if you stay hungry and sad or use that hunger to find something even more delicious and be happy.
And all of you have done the same.
Even though our paths have been different, what unites us is that we chose to be here.
Along the way, we faced challenges, doubts, and struggles.
But we kept making choices.
We kept moving forward.
And that’s what brought us here today.
I know there were times when you chose left when others chose “the right”.
Times, when you decided to fly, even when you were afraid, when you could have just walked.
What truly matters is the intention behind each step - the desire, in every moment, to do your best.
No matter what steps you took, none of them were steps backward.
Just like me - someone who once struggled just to run - who kept taking small steps, and eventually made it to Everest Base Camp with my friends.
Thank you to our professors and faculty for guiding us and for the kindness that brightened our days.
Thank you to our families for your unwavering support throughout this journey - we wouldn’t be here today without you.
My fellow graduates, I hope you remember this: the courage to keep trying - to do your best, no matter the circumstances, even when you feel uncertain - each small step can take you to places you never imagined.
And lastly , to my family, お父さん、お母さん、あかりちゃん、ここまでたくさんの愛で私のことを支えてくれて、本当にありがとう。
Thank you, and congratulations, Class of 2026.
We did it.
And we can do it again.